First of all whatever the situation is, though it is our mistake we dont like criticism and people criticising us. Hans Seyle says "As much as we thirst for approval, we dread condemnation". TWO GUN CROWLEY a notorious criminal of the United States writes this before he was caught by the Police “ Under my coat is a weary heart, but a kind one – one that would do nobody any harm".
We shall learn not to criticise rather to motivate them that they will never make such mistakes again! In 1842 Lincoln published an anonymous letter in springfield journal against a politician named james shields. James shields was so frustrated looking at this and people were in laughter after reading this journal at Shields. Shields was defamed through this incident and Shields challenged Lincoln for Duel Fight till death. But Lincoln refused to fight but Shields provoked him through many ways, at last Lincoln agreed for a duel fight.
The day arrived for the duel fight but their seconds (Trainers) convinced them, then Lincoln learnt a very good lesson "Never criticise anyone for anything, we are what they are under those circumstances".....Sharp criticisms and rebukes end in futility....
Above all relationships are like bank savings, the more liberal you are with your friends the more savings you can......This principle applies with friends, children, parents, relatives and others. When it comes to children we shall treat them in a different manner and when in comes to adults it shall be projected in different manner....
Finally we shall tame our tongue and try to control our words this is the conclusion. Many of us know this thing, since we have read this in our moral science, in many famous people's autobiographies and many times we have heard this yet we do the same......
A bad habit can never be erased but it can be replaced with a good one........
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